Monday
15Sep

Interview with Isabel Maples-How to Get Kids to Eat

I interviewed to the MId Atlantic Dairy Association's Isabel Maples last week.  I asked Isabel for tips on how to get my tween and teen girls to eat better.  Isabel has two teen daughters, so she was very in tune with my concerns.  See her answers below and I hope you find her answers as helpful as I did! 

What are some easy ideas that I use to tempt my kids (tween and teen girls) to eat healthier?

    • Begin to teach kids some guiding principles---like a meal should include 3 food groups, one of them a good protein source (like peanut butter, cheese, hummus, turkey, etc.). Or that they should have milk with meals, at least most of the time. This helps them start to self evaluate their choices.
    • Since kids make more of their own decisions about snacktimes, I try to teach them how to space snacks so they are still hungry at mealtimes.
    • So much emphasis these days are on what NOT to eat. There’s so much more to nutrition than that! For instance, my daughter’s friend might pick baked chips and a diet soda and think she had a great snack—my concern as a registered dietitian is that she also didn’t really get in many nutrients, either. Choosing nutrient-rich foods are important (foods that offer more nutrition for your calories.—  www.nutrientrichfoods.org )
    • I’m big on the importance of family meals. (As a mom with busy kids, I also know it’s not always easy to sit down together.)  That mealtime predictability and routine is good for kids, though, and offers a chance for parents to role model healthy eating and discuss what’s going on. (I have a lot of research on the benefits, etc, fascinating stuff, if you want to discuss.)
    • I think treating snacks like mini-meals helps boost their nutrient content.
    • I try to make better nutrition almost as easy as eating junk food is! It’s so easy to grab a bag of chips or open a bag of cookies—I try to keep on hand some easy-to-eat, more nutrient-packed foods, too. Like I buy fresh fruit and put it in an easy-to-see location in the kitchen. I wash grapes or cherries and leave the colander out on the counter. I will pick up single serve orange juice, fruit and yogurt smoothies, & chocolate milk for my kids to grab and go. I buy those microwave bags of veggies because my girls will make those when they fix food for themselves. I buy frozen fruit, yogurt, milk so my kids have supplies for making smoothies, a favorite for snacks or for breakfast when they don’t feel like eating. (I have lots more on how to make a great smoothie!)
    • Involve them! For instance, when kids get so they don’t feel like eating breakfast or they need something fast, sit down after school and brainstorm with them a list of easy-to-eat and quick-to- consume possibilities. Keep that list handy. Take kids to the grocery store to help pick out some foods that help solve the problem. (give them so parameters to guide their choices.)

·         For breakfast or for afternoon snack, set out a parfait station. Then let them build their own fruit and yogurt parfait by layering cereal, fresh fruit and yogurt. (We also like to pick these up at the drive-thru window at McDonalds. Now, Starbucks and other coffee shops carry them, too.)

    • One of my girls really likes to dip (she is my pickier eater) so I slice up fruit for her to dip into vanilla or fruit flavored yogurt. Or she eats vegetables (baby carrots, broccoli crowns, pea pods, etc) and dips those with a ranch dip or melted cheese. You can also use salsa, hummus and bean dips that are so popular
    •  My kids love quesadillas and so I (or they) make those for snacks. Using a nonstick pan, I heat a tortilla then add shredded cheese, cumin, maybe a little hot sauce, etc. I top it with the other tortilla, and cook till both sides are toasted and the cheese is melted. Then I slice it into wedges with a pizza cutter. Salsa is also good on this and adds a vegetable.

What are some realistic goals for a teen/tween nutrition? 

    • For most, my emphasis would be on getting more of the food groups that Americans tend to not get enough of---fruits, vegetables, whole grains and low fat dairy.
    • Eating three meals a day plus some scheduled snacks. As kids get older, they can make more of their own decisions in regards to snacks, but it helps them to understand how big of a snack to eat depending on whether they have 4 hours till mealtime or less than 2 hours.
    • Eating breakfast, whether at home or school.
    • Since kids often eat fast food, I try to help them learn some better choices there. Again, not just to minimize fat or calories but to boost nutrient intake, too. They need to know how to enjoy some favorite foods but still meet their nutrient needs. For instance, getting a smaller order of fries or sharing them. If they want a burger, get the small one and add something else, like the fruit and yogurt parfait, or a small salad or a baked potato or yogurt, etc. I encourage milk with the meal, too.

How many servings per day of the "food pyramid" should kids 10-13, 14-18 get per day?

How many servings per day of the "food pyramid" is the average for children 10-13, 14-18 get per day?

    • Kids tend to fall short in getting enough fruits, vegetables, whole grains, dairy.

Ways to sneak in veggies into other foods?

    • Lettuce/tomato/etc on sandwiches
    • Soup—you can incorporate veggies and beans. Also, use a hand blender (also know as an immersion blender) to thicken the soup and smooth out those chunks of veggies.
    • Dips like salsa, hummus, bean dips.
    • Old standbys like peanut butter on celery sticks.

Go to www.MyPyramid.gov   to get an individualized evaluation of your calorie needs.

 Then look up that calorie level to help see what you should be eating each day…

http://www.mypyramid.gov/downloads/MyPyramid_Food_Intake_Patterns.pdf#xml=http://65.216.150.153/texis/search/pdfhi.txt?query=calorie+levels&pr=MyPyramid&sufs=2&order=r&cq=&id=4592b6548


Sunday
14Sep

I'm Not an ATM and The Money Tree in the Backyard is Bare

Here is one reason why my kids (and many other kids) could benefit from a dose of reality via financial education.

My Daughter: I really want to get the new SPORE game this weekend.
Me: How would you pay for it?
My Daughter: I could do some extra chores for you around the house...
Me: I'd LOVE for you to do some extra chores but if I pay YOU that means that I have to come up with the money for the game. It's just not in the budget right now...sorry.
My Daughter: But Mommmmmmmm.....

My husband and I really try to instill financial boundaries and values in our kids. But the last few years have been tough on our family in terms of financial matters. I had my own business for years and due to circumstances beyond my control, the business hit hard times. There is a reason why so many businesses fail---and that's because it's HARD to be in business. Period.

It's been an adjustment for the girls because for the first part of their lives, I ran a successful business and my husband's industry was booming. In 2008, my husband's industry has been hurt by the economy and while he's doing great there are "little things" like not having our HEALTH INSURANCE paid for and having to change insurance plans----can really DING a family budget. It's reality.

Our girls are good kids and they are not "bratty" about money. But kids are kids. My girls have asked why we can't do some of the things we used to do. Why isn't the money there?

I've explained to the kids that life is not fair sometimes. And even if you do good and do the right thing, bad circumstances can happen. It's not an answer they like but they've come to understand and realize that money issues, are challenges in life that must be dealt with.

My parents grew up in the Great Depression, so my siblings and I were constantly reminded about financial planning and saving. Both of the girls have savings accounts of their own. We encourage both of the girls to save their money, save their change even...because it all adds up.

I believe that one of the best lessons parents can teach children is that they can't have everything they want...at the moment they want it. Life is not like that for 99.9% of the population and even if parents can afford to fulfill every desire for their children, it's not good for kids to get every wish granted all the time. It's never too early to start teaching this lesson! If that makes me a bad mom, then so be it.

Our job as parents is to prepare our children to be adults. Adults that can contribute to our society and to be self-respecting, happy people.

Not getting everything you want makes people resourceful. My daughter who wanted the game is buying it---with her cousin. My daughter and my nephew are going to each pay half and then share the game. They are working out a SCHEDULE for when each one has the game and when they will be able to play it TOGETHER. I know I'm her mom but I thought that was pretty smart.

I wrote this post as part of an initiative for The Parent Blogers Network. The Parent Bloggers Network is working with Capital One to get the word out about managing family finances. Along with national consumer advocacy group Consumer Action, Capital one launched a new online interactive Moneywi$e eLearning tool to help families learn about money management skills, including talking to kids about money. If you haven’t yet figured out how to handle this topic with your kids, this tool is a great place to start.

Visit - http://www.capitalone.com/financialeducation/cbt/launcher.htm Check out The Parent Bloggers Network - http://blog.parentbloggers.com.


Tuesday
09Sep

Lunch Box Giveaway---Tell, Enter and Win

Lands End is offering to give one of my wonderful readers a free Land's End Lunch Box.  All you have to do enter is tell me the WORST lunch you've ever packed for your child. In 100 words or less.  I can't enter because it's my blog but here is my "BAD MOMMY LUNCH STORY":

We had no bread, so I made the girls a "hamburger bun" PB&J.  Then I realized we had no Peanut Butter.  And we were almost out of JELLY.  So I made them a "hamburger bun with a splash of jelly".   I heard about it for YEARS from the girls.  It motivates me to go to the store to make sure I get good lunch stuff.  What is the worst lunch you've packed?

Spill it right here and win a free Lunch Box.  Contest ends on Monday, September 15th!


Monday
08Sep

Katie Couric is AWESOME!

I know everyone else probably saw this in July but I just found it on Huffington Post.  Katie Couic talked about how she dealt with mean and snarky gossip.  Katie's teen daughter Carrie reminded her about one of Couric's favorite TV shows, Sex in the City:

"Carrie once said, when I was kind of bummed out about something somebody had written that was really nasty and had nothing do do with my abilities or my journalistic abilities...she said, Mom, remember what Samantha said in Sex and the City: If I listened to what every bitch in New York City said about me, I'd never leave the house."

Big kudos to a strong mom and daughter team.  Read more on Huffington Post here.


Monday
08Sep

Land's End Lunch Giveaway and Healthy Lunches

I am focusing on healthy school lunches this week.  Land's End is giving away a free lunchbox for my lovely readers,  I'll  give you the details on Tuesday on how to enter and win.

School has started and families are getting into a routine---so now is the time to make healthy lunches part of the routine.  Later this week,  I'll have an interview a family nutrition expert for some easy ways to make lunch good and healthy.  Here's a few quick tips:

Dairy in your diet
Dairy provides nutrients like calcium, potassium, magnesium and Vitamin A.  This is really important for growing kids, yet typically dairy is lacking from the daily diet of many teens.

Whole grains and lean meats everyday
My kids didn't like it at first, now they love it when I use tortilla wraps with whole grains and lean meat.  I am also a fan of cheese as a way to jazz up a wrap snack or lunch. Dietician Dawn  Clausing recommends wrapping up string cheese along with fresh or dried fruit for a snack.

Colorful Veggies
In general, colorful vegetables are packed with nutrients.  Bring kids to the supermarket or farmers market with you.  Research shows the more children are engaged in selecting their food, the more likely they are to try and enjoy new items in their diet.

A Little Sugar isn't Bad
According to the 2005 Dietary Guidelines, small amounts of sugar added to nutrient-rich foods, such as low fat and fat-free dairy foods, will improve the taste so kids will eat more of the good stuff!**


Stay tuned, will have details on Tuesday on how to win a free lunchbox from Land's End!


**Recent study published in the Journal of the American Dietetic Association found that children who drink flavored or plain milk consume more nutrients and have a lower or comparable body mass index (BMI) than children who don’t drink milk.